- Solutions NOT problems
- The future NOT the past
- What to do NOT who to blame
At the beginning of a meeting:
- What are your best hopes for this meeting?
- What would you like to achieve today?
- How will you know later that this meeting was successful?
The solution focused approach gives practitioners a proven, positive program that helps children and young people deal with their problems, reach their own decisions, and gain self-esteem in the process. Rather than dwelling on deficits or the history of the problem, the solution-focused practitioner searches for times when the problem does not occur, and utilises these exceptions to begin to construct potential solutions.
This model is a practical, effective approach to working with children, young people and their families.
Underlying the solution focused approach is the positive and respectful attitude to the children and young people that the practitioners are working with. Using this approach, practitioners collaborate with children and young people and:
- Assume that they want to do well
- Assume that they can have or can develop a goal or goals
- Assume that they can have the capacity and personal resources to move towards the goal - even if in very small steps.
- Take it for granted that the children and young people are experts in their own lives and learning.
As the young person is an expert in her own life, the practitioner avoids using leading questions ("Why don't you..?" or "Have you thought of...?"). Leading questions may embed the practitioners solutions.
(Taken from Handbook 3 for National Induction training programme for level 3/4 children's workforce practitioners, pgs 41-55. )